WHAT IS IN A NAME ?? long long back one of the greatest English author raised this important issue which attracted my attention. and there is a saying seeing is believing and I am compelled to believe that everything is in the name only. See the pace of changing the names of our cities, roads and other govt schemes. Even the poor human being are not spared from getting to change their names. The topic of present discussion is this changing the names of ladies one they decided to get married. I found this phenomena taking place in all the strata of society be it highly placed officials or the common village folks. and still we talk about the equal rights to the fair sex i.e. our Nari shakti. I was wondering that is there really a need to change the maiden or surnames of the ladies we have decided to marry. I did not find any solid reason and that is why I did not take any step to change of my better half. Before marriage she was known as Rashmi Kaushik and since I am happen to be Pankaj Kumar so I did not force her to adopt my surname and change her name to some funny looking name RASHMI KAUSHIK KUMAR OR RASHMI KUMAR. Even after marriage at all the places I write her original name and that never made our life vulnerable. So Guys those who are unmarried keep this in mind.I think someone have to take the initiative and let the ladies keep their original names which they got from their loving parents and family members.
And a request to all our female counterparts please do not change your name as it wo'nt have any legal requirement once you have all the necessary certificates of proving your marriage to any gentleman I think you no need to change your name. Or simply become some chaudhary Bhattacharya or sharma kaushik Kumar or some other funny looking name.
I am raising this issue of quite urgent nature at this platform coz I consider we are all the intellectuals here and can really understand the gravity of the situation. I invite a heated and mindblowing and brainstroming session on this issue specially would like to listen the arguments for the chaning the name and against it.
Invite all the members to share their view specially ladies married or unmarried. Pls come forward to express yourself. Its an informal platform to disccussion many more such issues.
And a request to all our female counterparts please do not change your name as it wo'nt have any legal requirement once you have all the necessary certificates of proving your marriage to any gentleman I think you no need to change your name. Or simply become some chaudhary Bhattacharya or sharma kaushik Kumar or some other funny looking name.
I am raising this issue of quite urgent nature at this platform coz I consider we are all the intellectuals here and can really understand the gravity of the situation. I invite a heated and mindblowing and brainstroming session on this issue specially would like to listen the arguments for the chaning the name and against it.
Invite all the members to share their view specially ladies married or unmarried. Pls come forward to express yourself. Its an informal platform to disccussion many more such issues.
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